Maybe it's because I'm a Scorpio, maybe it's because I actually pay attention, but to me, it seems like sex rules the world.  It can't just be the circles I travel in, because I travel in so many different and varying circles, and every where I go, sex is king, or queen.  Maybe we're much more like animals than we ever want to admit.  Maybe sex appeal is our way of fighting to be fittest in this game we call survival.  Whatever it is, I have come to find that my own personal power rose when I discovered my own sex appeal, and allowed it to be the compelling argument in my introduction to the world.

I used to think money ruled the world... but now I've realized that money is just the means to get more sex.  Everyone wants to have sex... and not just sex, but good, delicious, ravaging, climax-inducing, sex.  Everyone.  I don't care what you look like, or where you came from, the pleasure that comes from sex is the common denominator.  We all want it.  I'd say even more than love.  I mean, if you think about it, love has it's ups and its downs.  It hurts as much as it feels good.  The deeper into love that you get, the more pain it can cause you.  When it comes to sex, the better it gets, the better you feel.  Love could learn a lot from sex.  When we're in love, we let pain cripple us.  We let it cut us off from those who we know that we love, and enjoy being around.  Sex takes pain and it masters it.  It helps us understand, that sometimes pain is necessary to deal with if we want to find the pleasureable center.. Sex helps us realize that pain and pleasure all come down to your perception.



Sex is an equalizer.  I mean, look back at slave times.  blacks were thought of as chattle, and yet, those slave owners were still taken trips down to the slave quarters.  Why?  For sex.  So in one fell swoop, sex united to opposite sides of the spectrum.  It was in the wake of Kinsey's study on human sexuality that the sexual revolution began, and women fought to gain their rights.  Maybe we should take a cue from them.  Maybe it's time we start luring the flies with honey and stop using vinegar.

Maybe our struggle for equality needs to start in the bedroom, and not the senate house.  Trust me, if I can consistently get the boys that don't like black boys, and the boys that don't like boys to take a trip to the bedroom with me, then how much easier will it be for me to get them to give me all the same rights that they have.. I've always said, if the gays knew the power we had to influence this world we would take it.  Beauty is in our wake.. and sex... in everyone's view.. is a beautiful thang.